There are very valid reasons why parents use their devices during a supervised vists. Maybe you are going to check the time, respond a text or email, or take a photo. That’s the world we live in, and that’s okay. But when we become absorbed in our devices in a way that interferes with our ability to connect with and respond to our kids, then this a problem.
While Lilly Pilly doesn’t have set rules regarding device use during visitation, we do ask that you are mindful during your contact time.
You have limited amount of time to spend with your kids, focusing on your connection with them during this time should be the most important thing.
Ding.. Ding.. Do you really need to that check text or email, right now? Or can you mute your phone check it later? Does it matter what the time is? We will let you know when its time to wrap it up. Photo can become precious memories, but we don’t need to capture every moment.
So next time your attended a supervised visit consider leaving your phone in the car if you struggle to disconnect from it or switch it to mute.
